tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post4758173179926307961..comments2024-03-29T17:14:25.039+08:00Comments on BULLy the BEAR: Choose the right marriage partnerla papillionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01372278083694506953noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-21402844427391311262010-09-08T13:32:14.141+08:002010-09-08T13:32:14.141+08:00Successful marriage is made in heaven. Without God...Successful marriage is made in heaven. Without God blessings the marriage won't last till we do part from each other from this world. Because there are easily "101 things" that can tear both of you apart in this world. And if you only believe even with a little faith, it will be alright.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-47857666079544966672010-03-18T21:54:15.618+08:002010-03-18T21:54:15.618+08:00Hi Christina,
I don't think I'll stick to...Hi Christina,<br /><br />I don't think I'll stick together 'no matter what'. It's a bit contradictory to say that we must accept change and yet keep the status of the relationship the same.<br /><br />I'm not saying that we should threaten divorce on any small little things. Sometimes, it might be easier for all if the parties involve part their own way.la papillionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01372278083694506953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-26945531981772194182010-03-18T17:49:06.788+08:002010-03-18T17:49:06.788+08:00No one can really predict the future, maybe you th...No one can really predict the future, maybe you think you married the right person but in the end, you regret the day you met him/her. The only permanent in this world is change...anything can happen in any relationship. There's no right or wrong reason for marrying, it depends on one's perspective of what's right and wrong. Just keep the lamp burning and stick together no matter what.Christinahttp://www.thegoldandoilguy.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-83657507944548021082010-03-15T11:16:39.118+08:002010-03-15T11:16:39.118+08:00Hi Alvin,
Haha, sometimes opening both eyes can s...Hi Alvin,<br /><br />Haha, sometimes opening both eyes can still see nothing :) It's called hiding in plain sight.<br /><br />Love is blind afterall ;)la papillionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01372278083694506953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-62304773552974993482010-03-13T22:55:34.689+08:002010-03-13T22:55:34.689+08:00I heard the statistics for divorce in SG is 1/3. W...I heard the statistics for divorce in SG is 1/3. Wonder if it is so high. So as a trader, the probability is higher for an intact marriage. :)<br /><br />Since you opened both eyes, your odds should be better.Alvinhttp://www.bigfatpurse.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-62966898918920805072010-03-09T23:14:24.025+08:002010-03-09T23:14:24.025+08:00Hi LP,
I was about to share with you this seminar...Hi LP,<br /><br />I was about to share with you this seminar! its regarding marriage & family 婚姻与家庭中的基督宝座<br /><br />Its by Pastor Stephen Tong http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stephen_Tong <br />Mandarin with English translation.<br /><br />eg. 1999 - NUS Q&A: (Mandarin with English Translation)<br /><br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQ64bbj1JqA&feature=related<br /><br />婚姻与家庭中的基督宝座 <br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2zuEkwQ9bMU <br /><br />He is good :)<br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=08OCDb6raVc&feature=related<br /><br />I learn so much from him (including investment!), I wish I had heard him earlier. :) <br /><br />Maybe some of you guys/gals may be interested:<br /><br />3rd April (Sat), 9am-3pm, www.stemi.sg<br /><br />Cheers!<br />hhAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-69897380018439028642010-03-09T21:50:45.445+08:002010-03-09T21:50:45.445+08:00Is there such thing as right partner?
One can on...Is there such thing as right partner? <br /><br />One can only know the partner is the right one or not when the partner lies in the coffin.Createwealth8888https://www.blogger.com/profile/08563834016250153049noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-33049002893300100722010-03-09T13:58:58.828+08:002010-03-09T13:58:58.828+08:00The saying goes: "Marry the person for who he...The saying goes: "Marry the person for who he or she is rather than who you think he or she can become."<br /><br />Once we have decided to spend the rest of our lives with someone, we make a vow to stick with the person for better or worse..FFhttp://sgfinancialfreedom.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-77355029653718529662010-03-09T13:33:10.654+08:002010-03-09T13:33:10.654+08:00Courting days are for discovering your potential m...Courting days are for discovering your potential mates. Get to know the person, their believes, habits, likes & dislikes and anything which irritates you.<br />Then you will have to decide whether you can live with these irritating whatever in your potential mates against what you like in them. If you cannot, then you should know what to do. Otherwise, don't regret later. <br /><br />Don't try to change them later either for some believes, habits or character come together. A practical man can never be a Don Juan or spontaneous romantic.<br /><br />A woman who believes only in branded goods is never going to be frugal.<br /><br />Accept that what you see is what you get or forever rue the day you married them.<br /><br />madskipperAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-49499393994196081572010-03-09T12:47:27.774+08:002010-03-09T12:47:27.774+08:00Hi PG,
I read a few of the books, yes :) I should...Hi PG,<br /><br />I read a few of the books, yes :) I should be okay haha, crossing my fingers!la papillionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01372278083694506953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-13839568602235578342010-03-09T10:22:56.077+08:002010-03-09T10:22:56.077+08:00Hi LP
Some books can be helpful. Theory is still ...Hi LP<br /><br />Some books can be helpful. Theory is still theory but beats ignorance.<br /><br />"Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"<br /><br />"His Needs Her Needs"<br /><br />Congrats on getting married.<br /><br />Be well and prosper.PanzerGrenadierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15836438378215893219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-8360062536884804862010-03-08T23:39:36.766+08:002010-03-08T23:39:36.766+08:00Dou,
No lah, it's not that I am against marr...Dou, <br /><br />No lah, it's not that I am against marriage. I'm just saying that we had to choose carefully, because it'll affect our future happiness. If not sure, better don't hope that the other partner will change. <br /><br />I think the impt question here is whether you can accept the other person without him/her changing :)la papillionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01372278083694506953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-13898364090261430802010-03-08T23:38:24.476+08:002010-03-08T23:38:24.476+08:00Hi bro8888,
This 4 pointers must have come from y...Hi bro8888,<br /><br />This 4 pointers must have come from your experience, haha :) Nagging must be a sign of love :)la papillionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01372278083694506953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-72724063786673305452010-03-08T23:37:50.582+08:002010-03-08T23:37:50.582+08:00Hi madskipper,
Thanks for sharing with me :) I...Hi madskipper,<br /><br />Thanks for sharing with me :) I'll remember what you mention here :)la papillionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01372278083694506953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-15140826858162068602010-03-08T20:59:46.091+08:002010-03-08T20:59:46.091+08:00Same as investing. Worry about buying the wrong st...Same as investing. Worry about buying the wrong stock. Don't invest. LOLCreatewealth8888https://www.blogger.com/profile/08563834016250153049noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-91791637133891077802010-03-08T20:55:27.850+08:002010-03-08T20:55:27.850+08:00What abt the title changed to why get married?
I...What abt the title changed to why get married? <br /><br />It true...better off not to marry than to marry a wrong galDouhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10694404984460035958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-14366521728541600262010-03-08T17:15:24.466+08:002010-03-08T17:15:24.466+08:001. Open both eyes before marriage, close one eye a...1. Open both eyes before marriage, close one eye after marriage<br /><br />2. Men, before you marry your sweetheart; be mentally prepared and to accept your nagging wife as she may come sooner than expected as an unavoidable feature of the married condition.<br /><br />3. Congratulations from running away from a nagging mother; but, soon there will be another nagging woman in your life, man! <br /><br />4. If a woman tells you that she won't nag. Don't believe her. It is just she haven't nag yet.Createwealth8888https://www.blogger.com/profile/08563834016250153049noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-2982960366548782472010-03-08T14:00:40.107+08:002010-03-08T14:00:40.107+08:00LP,
My philosophy is to settle whatever conflict ...LP,<br /><br />My philosophy is to settle whatever conflict or disagreements with my wife on the same day before we go to bed. Don't leave anything hanging in the air for it becomes more difficult to compromise the longer we wait. Agree to disagree, compromise, whatever it takes.<br /><br />madskipperAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-52533772914796301642010-03-08T11:36:29.261+08:002010-03-08T11:36:29.261+08:00Hi PG,
That's my observation too - no peace i...Hi PG,<br /><br />That's my observation too - no peace in family, cannot work in peace too. <br /><br />You're right, conflict management is a must. Sure bound to have disagreements, but as long as the relationship is built on a solid foundation of trust and love, it'll be okay :)<br /><br />Getting married this year...hahala papillionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01372278083694506953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-74773031806431742472010-03-08T09:53:04.919+08:002010-03-08T09:53:04.919+08:00Hi LP
I can testify to that fact that if you have...Hi LP<br /><br />I can testify to that fact that if you have no peace and harmonious relationship at home, it's hard to concentrate at work.<br /><br />We can do all the due diligence as Anon said but the interesting thing about people is that we CHANGE. Habits can change, personalities can change.<br /><br />With children, it CHANGES a lot.<br /><br />Hence, my suggestion will be for couples to know each other as well as they can but to work on conflict resolution skills, how to agree to disagree. :-)<br /><br />Be well and prosper.PanzerGrenadierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15836438378215893219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-62532661275997463202010-03-08T08:06:08.977+08:002010-03-08T08:06:08.977+08:00Hi anonymous,
Thanks for sharing and your advice ...Hi anonymous,<br /><br />Thanks for sharing and your advice :)<br /><br />So I guess Napoleon Hill is right - it is difficult to be successful if one marries the wrong partner. But what is defined as wrong varies. Perhaps some right marriages can go wrong and some wrong can become right, just like what you've said :)<br /><br />What to do? Close one eye after marriage ;)la papillionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01372278083694506953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37872616.post-82204311600184611042010-03-07T14:12:36.171+08:002010-03-07T14:12:36.171+08:00dude, even with due diligence, an excellent compan...dude, even with due diligence, an excellent company in the distant future may go bankrupt. likewise who can predict a marriage many years down the road ?<br /><br />wheel of fortune turns and turns, even with prudent planning, one might get into money problems. no money even my mother will disown me! u expect the wife not to complain ?<br /><br />wife and mother-in-law, no matter how well they get along before you get married, will argue at some point. in older days, the wife will endure. in present times, don't let them meet too often!<br /><br />but it is ok! if marriage or life is uneventful, you will find other troubles. and majority of the marriages are successful, so the odds of success is on our side!<br /><br />finally men goes into marriage knowing its a death sentence, women enter it hoping their men will change for the better! so the secret is be more accomodating, it cant get worse for u =)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com